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What's the best way to ask a couple if.....? - 7/14/2021

Hello all, <br> we live in a small town that supposedly has alot of swingers in it. The problem is that because its a small town, no-one says anything about it. We are trying to find the best way to ask a couple if they swing without a) getting laughed at; b) getting hit; or c) without the entire town finding out about our lifestyle. We personally don't mind but it may make ...

10 response(s), 57 votes
rm_kirk6215 71 M
0  questions
Cowboys what do you think of them? - 7/14/2021

I have written you on serveral occasions and now that you are back in Mich I would like to chat with you and take you back riding and get back to nature, to show you a new world.

2 response(s), 1 vote
petitscorpion 43 F
1  question
  - 7/14/2021

Have You already payed someone for having sex with that person ? How much did You pay ?

43 response(s), 70 votes
rm_6Inquest9 40 C
0  questions
Parenting Question - 7/14/2021

Well here is our pickle. Me and my gf have been dating for almost 3 months....she has 2 of her own which is more then fine with myself. Our pickle is that they are both young and the youngest *her * is her ex's . My ex-roomate and SUPPOSED friend...the problem is that her has never reeally know his dad as "dad" and after her had seen me for 3-4 times each time for no longer then 3 hours ...

7 response(s), 3 votes
A question to be answered. How do u become a male ? - 7/14/2021

one day i'm coming back from my high school (2 years ago) to my apartment when suddenly a black man in a car stopped in from of me and asked me if i would like to have sex (by the way i'm straight) in a 3some with a woman, at first i kind of douted because i had never done that before and also the thought of another man there it kinda seen gay [was my thought] {i got ...

6 response(s), 6 votes
looking4friend30 49 M
0  questions
Not sure what to do - 7/14/2021

I am 30 and my ex g/f is 19 we have a 4 month old together and still live together for money reasons and I also want to help her raise him for the first year together. the problem is is that she broke up with me after the baby was born. I told her that I only wanted a baby if we was going to stay togehter I did not want to be a part time dad again. she let me believe that is what was going ...

10 response(s), 4 votes
69forudear 60 M
0  questions
Sex after a vasectomy - 7/14/2021

I had one about 11 years ago because after my wife popped out 2 and had a couple of miscarriages I thought it was only fair that I would go under the knife since she had to endure all that other stuff. Since that time sex has been fantastic. <br> My question is: Is this just a mental thing? Knowing that you won't have to worry about another baby knocking on your door, and am I ...

8 response(s), 6 votes
Sex with lactating women - 7/14/2021

My wife and I had our firsst a few months ago. We find it incredibly erotic to have sex while she is lactating. We think it would be hot to find another couple with a lactating woman to experiment with. Has anyone ever tried this? What did you think?

3 response(s), 2 votes
rm_Aubsha 35 M
0  questions
Problem - 7/14/2021

Recently I slept with a freind of the familes . Now the problem with this is she is 18 i am 23. this is a big difference in my family as well as hers and our community. I hadnt seen her since she had been back from college, and man she caught me totally off guard she is hot and mature now! She now has become really really clingy and I dont know what to do. I do like her alot though, i ...

6 response(s), 2 votes
spinmedown 46 M
13  questions
Legalizing ? - 7/13/2021

I was wondering if the legalizing of in the US would have any effect on adult websites like this one. This site's home-page boasts phrases like, "Find a Sex Partner!" and "Interact With Hot Women!". Clearly these phrases are meant to attract men, and I hear that men outnumber women by a wide margin on this site and probably on the other sites as well. <br> -------Please ...

10 response(s), 21 votes
rm_DAYLIGHTLOVE 42 M
0  questions
WHAT SHALL I DO, HELP................. - 7/13/2021

Here is a serious situation and I NEED advice from mature ladies and married men. It’s all about a married person whose whole life is around his wife and . Before marriage, I was involved in M/M Sex, and I decided to keep myself away after my marriage. I tried my best to cope with the requirement of married life. It worked well, my wife is happy with me. In spite of all this, there ...

15 response(s), 30 votes
rm_bigg_cali 55 M
0  questions
what went wrong - 7/13/2021

I knew when i met my wife that she needed lots of attention from men. I loved her enough and she seemed to love me, to allow her to be with whomever she wanted as long as she was honest and talked about the encounter with me so it could be something we shared. Turns out she couldnt be honest and fell for one of her lovers and now all she wants to do is go out to the bars with him and leave ...

12 response(s), 8 votes
hot_horny_695 28 F
1  question
Sex Partners - 7/13/2021

How many sex partner can one have without be called a ?

18 response(s), 17 votes
why, do women in general always fall for the people who treat them like crap? - 7/13/2021

I am just curious, I've dated two guys, one I was with for over 11 years and had three with him, he was always putting me down and pushing me around and yet I could not make myself leave until after he beat me up so bad that I ended up in the hospital. The second guy I dated was extremly jealous and he ended up cheating on me and trying to convince me that it was my fault that he couldn't ...

20 response(s), 34 votes
Creamywhiteass 45 F
2  questions
What is a " stamp"? - 7/13/2021

I was out one night and heard some guys talking about another girl - said they wanted to fuck her and that she would be easy because she had a " stamp." I'm thinking it must be a tattoo?

8 response(s), 9 votes
Wham Bam what's your name mam? - 7/13/2021

Maybe I'm to picky but I'd like to say hello over a drink or a coffee. I'd like to have a first date first. I was a sailor for a while, I've picked women from behind a glass window for sex. I was young and had been on the boat too long, it made sense. I like leagalized . But here, here in my neighborhood I'd like to have a comfortable hello before I throw your legs in the air or wear ...

10 response(s), 26 votes
To stay or to leave? - 7/13/2021

Alright I am asking these questions for advice from an outside person who knows nothing about me. I really do hope you all can give me some insite. I will try to make this as short as possible.THANKS <br> I am currently married and have been for about a year and a half. We have a two year old . He is not the biological father but yes in every sense he is her father. I got pregnant ...

23 response(s), 6 votes
wifey3223 55 F
227  questions
my b.f says you all agree with me >because i re-word things? - 7/13/2021

thats not true, anyone whos met wifey3223 will tell you, im real & down to earth. like i tell him, i call it as i see it. to me hes trying to talk his way out of being a man, doing what he should. he calls us living together, all we do is argue. he feels, im dogging him, putting him down, belittleing him, over talking him. as, i said why? are you hear then. because hes saving money over ...

7 response(s), 8 votes
CAN I MOVE ON? - 7/13/2021

I divorced my husband and have learnt to move on. In fact, I met a wonderful German guy who is now my boyfriend. However, my ex husband is still keen to have me back. We still meet regularly because our 3 year-old stays with him during the week while I have him on weekends. There were days when we were as close as we used to be but his beatings and violence always remind me not to go back ...

5 response(s), 2 votes
Question for straight women - 7/13/2021

For all the 100% straight ladies out there, what would you do if a woman you cared about was attracted to you? How would you handle it; avoid the issue and person, or talk to her? Would it make you evaluate your own feelings for her? It's hard for me to understand what a completely straight woman would feel in this situation. I was in a situation where I was attracted to a woman who was ...

11 response(s), 22 votes
TheCincyKid01 39 M
0  questions
Being a standard member. - 7/13/2021

As a standard member I use the IMC flash and I message strangers here and there even if I cant read their profile. I get a lot of rude responses from people telling me to read profiles first but I dont think they realize that I cant because I am a standard member. I dont ever get rude back, I just tell them Im a standard member and I wont let it happen again, but it does make me think that ...

8 response(s), 28 votes
hard477allday 68 M
11  questions
Men's Wardrobe: What do women prefer? - 7/13/2021

What's up with these who wear there pants below there ass so their Sponge Bob boxers show their immaturity to the world? <br> Remember the day when your Levis had to be skin tight just so the ladies could get a clear view of what you had (or didn't have)? <br> So, WOMEN..... What style Men's Wardrobe catches you attention most? Was ZZ Top right... Every Girl's Crazy ...

12 response(s), 9 votes
StLouisTeacher 59 M
7  questions
Do young guys even know what circucision is? - 7/13/2021

I fully expect to get slapped around for yet another circumcision post in this area. Don't care. <br> Here's why I posted this question. I've checked out a lot of pix of guys who marked "no" on the circumcision part of their profile, yet their pictures show obvious scar tissue and tight skin on their dick shafts. I have personally known two guys (ages 21 and 24) who said they were ...

8 response(s), 11 votes
EAGLEEYE_53 70 M
2  questions
Response, auto or manual - 7/13/2021

This is more a statement then a Question. I've yet to receive a response from a Lady after recieving an "Autoreply" and no reply from countless messages. The only thing I would like to say abount this is just because this is clasified as a sex site shouldn't mean that common curtesy is not included. I see a great amount of profiles saying "be honest, no liars, etc. Then Ladies will complain ...

14 response(s), 8 votes
sandyhotnready 48 F
0  questions
does it mean he's gay or not - 7/13/2021

i'm pretty sure i know the answer to this but i'd love to hear if anyone has any input. see i've been recently separated from someone who when working out of state said he got a . i thought fucking great, and here he wouldn't let go of his own selfish self-satisfying ways long enough to want to do me, his women often enough. now here's the insane part. he would spend hours writing in ...

10 response(s), 6 votes
LittleVJ 55 F
100  questions
From the mouths of babes. - 7/13/2021

Recently my 16 yr. old caught a ride home from school from one of her friends older sisters. While I'm quite familiar with her friends, I'm not familiar with this girl's sister. Or at least so I thought. <br> My said to me that this woman told her that she knew me from a local swingers party. I was a bit taken aback. First because it is something that I had not discussed with my ...

39 response(s), 23 votes
Shankielove83 39 F
0  questions
i have a question to ask the people who are sexually advanced... - 7/13/2021

Ok, I am only 22 and i have only have intercourse with 4 men and 1 woman in my life. and i ( and others) consider myself to be VERY tight. the question is, is it possible that a penis can be too big or long, for a vagina? <br> i know it may sound silly but last night my friend and i decided to have sex for the first time, and granted it was good, but whenever he decided to go ...

8 response(s), 9 votes
rm_vikingman72 51 M
3  questions
I hate Eddie Haskal. How do we dispatch of him? - 7/13/2021

Your post doesn't belong here. You spelled the word fuckc wrong. That question was posted twice allready in the years 01 and 96. <br> Whats with all the fucking hall moniters in the advice pages? <br> Note the question mark. <br> Fine, I will be less angry. A walks into a bar and the bartender asks him why the long face?

15 response(s), 18 votes
Am I A Dog? - 7/13/2021

I have taken a bashing from a few women (I've only gotten a response from a few women) for being a married man who is wanting to cheat on his wife. Has it ever occured to anyone that maybe there is a medical reason that some married women can't have intimacy or sex... and that doesn't then mean that their husband's drive also stops. <br> I married my wife for better or for worse. ...

26 response(s), 17 votes
heresjohnny1981 26 M
14  questions
IS IT OK TO USE.... - 7/13/2021

IS IT OK USE PROSTITUTES IF YOUR IN A STABLE RELATIONSHIP IF YOUR PARTNER WONT DO CERTAIN THINGS YOU WANT TO TRY YOU MIGHT NOT LIKE THEM BUT YOU WANT TO TRY IS A A GOOD OPTION PAY FOR IT IF YOU LIKE TAKE THINGS FROM THERE IF YOU DONT KNOW BODY GETS HURT AND RELATIONSHIP DOESNT TAKE A KNOCK

13 response(s), 12 votes