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boredlookingfor 38 M
4  questions
Looking for - 10/24/2019

Looking for people talk seems the instant message acts up

18 response(s), 28 votes
boredlookingfor 38 M
4  questions
Looking for - 10/24/2019

Looking for people talk seems the instant message acts up

3 response(s), 4 votes
boredlookingfor 38 M
4  questions
Looking for - 10/24/2019

Looking for people talk seems the instant message acts up

1 response(s), 4 votes
singlefuntime 41 M
1  question
point sytem - 10/24/2019

what do you think of this new point system to answer or talk to some one if you are not a gold memeber use to be at lease u got 3 aday for free now u have to buy points or go gold

23 response(s), 41 votes
Thickster20 43 M
1  question
Fantasy or reality - 10/24/2019

My question for everyone is how do you cum hardest. When experiencing the reality of sex of fantasizing about sex?

20 response(s), 29 votes
Does anyone have luck on here? - 10/24/2019

Typically asking guys looking for chicks. There seems to be a lot of fakes out there

32 response(s), 30 votes
Madwoman2019 59 F
1  question
New To This - 10/24/2019

I actually have several questions and will be grateful for any or advice: <br><br> Are there real people on this site? <br><br> How does the IM work? <br><br> Is a gold membership worth it?

40 response(s), 56 votes
pjfriendly082 42 M
2  questions
What to do in the Swing room? - 10/24/2019

What are your preferences, things to do when you are playing in a room full of naked people.? <br><br> Would you be playing porn? Would you be recording video or taking pictures? How many would be serving drinks or snacks in between go sessions? <br><br> Ive seen a few different scenarios. Nothing hotter than being the show for me. I may not be the hottest one to look at, ...

12 response(s), 27 votes
duke982000 55 M
16  questions
get some im real lets play r u game - 10/24/2019

have some fun

16 response(s), 31 votes
ridemybodytoday 60 M
3  questions
Going from the friend zone - 10/24/2019

I work with a cute sexy Spanish lady who is 48 and married with 5 and catholic. I know she loves her husband and I love my wife so I know that neither of us would want a change in our marital status. I am 55. We have kinda flirted some but I would love to be able to get her to go to a hotel room with me sometime when we are working together. I know her spouse and she knows mine so we do have a ...

26 response(s), 26 votes
Swingers4wet1 36 C
1  question
anal? - 10/24/2019

How did you get wife interested in anal sex?

44 response(s), 47 votes
buddy98111111 54 M
8  questions
yes - 10/23/2019

let s have fun any 1 ?

21 response(s), 38 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
Talk Dirty to Me - 10/23/2019

I've been contacted by a "woman" here. Honestly, her picture looks very much like a crossdressed male. More interesting is the fact that her messages have been EXTREMELY graphic... from the first. Going on about anal sex, and asking me to respond with detailed information about "what I like." Personally, I don't want to talk dirty to anyone I haven't met yet. Why ...

54 response(s), 93 votes
Jformeets 23 M
2  questions
IM - 10/23/2019

Why can people not saying, 'Sorry, not interested' when people send an IM. I feel that some give mixed messages such as a lot of profile views, adding to a hotlist and then flirting but then won't respond on IM. Also had an initial conversation asking me to top fan them so we can talk, after I did, they wouldn't reply to PM or IM.. <br><br> Anyone else experience this?

41 response(s), 67 votes
Smthng818 34 M
2  questions
Points - 10/23/2019

What’s the easiest way to get max points

28 response(s), 42 votes
Superman4695 35 M
56  questions
The smell of desperation??? - 10/22/2019

No not the guys and ladies that use the site but the site itself. Now instead of being auto-logged I have to manually log and it takes you to a page for buying gold to enter credit information etc with only a small homepage icon to get to the main site. This site might not be long for the world if they are pulling out stops like this. <br><br> Edit to add <br><br> 1. To ...

28 response(s), 54 votes
Cuck Without Wife Knowing - 10/22/2019

Am I just wasting my time? Married wannabe cuck, but wife would never go for it, so trying to find a dominant guy who would like chatting about her in my area, meet up, be made fun of by him, etc. But, not looking to suck dick or anything like that. Am I ever going to make this happen and know what the experience of being face to face with someone who knows this about me is like?

32 response(s), 58 votes
Smthng818 34 M
2  questions
points - 10/22/2019

whats the best way to get some

28 response(s), 38 votes
does the site actually work - 10/22/2019

Been on here for a month and was wondering if it does really work ?

37 response(s), 45 votes
Erotic Stories - 10/22/2019

I have noticed my story submissions are often missing words -- somewhat randomly the systems seems to drop words. I've edit the same stories a few times and still words are missing. Has anyone else encountered this problem? (It makes it look like I can't write! )

20 response(s), 39 votes
Does this work? - 10/22/2019

Has anyone actually met on this?

28 response(s), 29 votes
jolielaide 52 F
53  questions
where did everyone go? - 10/22/2019

does anyone know how you find blogs today? there are people i watch but it seems like the recent or most recent blogs, like the ones for today and preceding are not listed. they got the polls, and the new bloggers divided by gender. i know people are blogging but how are you supposed to find them or am i the only one that noticed when you go to the blogs that even that page is different.

50 response(s), 60 votes
FFU22018 57 F
19  questions
Knock Knock - 10/22/2019

After chatting with a few men, I think it's safe say they have a whole different perspective on personal safety than women. Many men have given me their HOME address. I've seen men wanting "car sex". Meet in some dark parking lot? Really....??? With all the posts about men pretending be women, fakes, scammers, etc. I get that most men aren't afraid of handling themselves ...

57 response(s), 92 votes
juano20182 57 M
5  questions
Por que estan en este sitio? - 10/21/2019

Parece que me explique mal, según mi experiencia la mayoría esta aquí por calentura, morbo, pero no van a dar el paso de tener encuentros, he chateado con muchas mujeres y la mayoría no concreta encuentros, no es lo que buscan, por eso la pregunta, por que están en este sitio?

13 response(s), 33 votes
need points - 10/21/2019

need points

36 response(s), 62 votes
I have heard that drinking pineapple makes cum taste nicer - 10/21/2019

I have tried it and it maybe true lol

33 response(s), 53 votes
Chat issues - 10/21/2019

Is it me or is there something not right with chat. There are numerous folks that show up in chat that are within my profiles parameters but don’t show in profile search sorted by last viewed...they should be and it seems that any messages I send appear not to be delivered. Could these be from affiliated sites owned by AdultFriendFinder or am I missing something...and I know they may not want to respond but ...

30 response(s), 43 votes
Active profiles - 10/21/2019

One of the things that keeps me from becoming a gold member again is the small number of active (last viewed) profiles. The millions of profiles may be true but active and within a distance I will travel is small and generally the same for long periods of time...anyone feel similarly?

12 response(s), 27 votes
Initial view - 10/21/2019

I know this is a question for the profile, but not being able to read them, thought I would ask. Whats the first thing do you look when meeting someone?

11 response(s), 14 votes
Initial view - 10/21/2019

I know this is a question for the profile, but not being able to read them, thought I would ask. Whats the first thing do you look when meeting someone?

2 response(s), 7 votes